Happy Tuesday and its time for the Bubbly Blues and Bliss! One of our faves contributors Matchmaker Ana is back and she is serving some dating realness as only she can. Welcome back Matchmaker Ana!
Hey y’all! It’s Matchmaker Ana! I’m baaaaccckkk and ready to answer all of your dating and relationship questions. We will make you anonymous if you need discretion.
Soooo anyways…let’s dive into this month’s question:
When is the right time to pursue a serious relationship with a guy you are casually dating?
-Dating In The Big City
Well, DITBC… This is a great question. Many people are wondering when they should be pursuing the next level with their current mate. And my answer is… Once you know that this person meets all of your requirements… and you can see them in your future.Once you find that this person's life goals are aligned with yours Click To Tweet and that he/she meets your personal relationship requirements, you will feel comfortable moving on to the next level in a relationship.
What I mean by requirements are…
- Does this person meet ALL of your non-negotiables?
- Are you both headed in the same direction in life?
- Can you communicate in a way that he/she can understand…and vice versa?
- Are the things you value important to him/her?
- Can you really see a life with them in 10 years? 20? 50?
If you’re doubtful about any of this, I would suggest you self-evaluate before making anymore moves. Listen to your intuition. It won’t steer you wrong. And believe me…there is NOTHING wrong with a little self-evaluation before making a BIG step!
Good luck with your boo thang!! Remember that the universe is wise and loving. 🙂
If you’d like to learn more about how to figure out your requirements, don’t hesitate to contact me. Let’s make sure you’re on the right track!
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As always thanks so much to Matchmaker Ana for her dating realness advice! Do you have a dating situation that you need help with? Does your relationship need a little spark? Have you gotten bored? Ask your question. Email firstname.lastname@example.org and your question may be featured next!